She was born into a brittle vessel that never had a chance to harden. Growing up her house was never a castle but rather a constantly shifting uncertainty. Childhood was loneliness personified and her vessel was constantly under attack. She fought dragons that breathed fire […]
My psychiatrist released me into the wild a year ago. She was very sick, and she needed to stop practicing. I miss her terribly. She saved my life, my marriage, my sanity. At our last session she told me she was proud of me and […]
As most of my friends have kids now, I am surrounded by awesome women doing their best to raise the next generation. From my advantage on the sidelines I know that raising kids is not easy. This Mother’s Day my friend, C, celebrates her first […]
Tis the season to shed the winter layers and start preparing for spring, and the loathsome summer. For many women this means the arduous task of shaving off the winter fur so that they can can bare their legs in shorts. I’m not one of […]
Archives , and the preservation of our history is my jam. Next to cats and my husband it’s a huge love in my life. Monday, I had been checked out of social media and not paying attention to what was going on in the world […]
I am going to be discussing mediocre/useless men that women end up settling, and making excuses for staying with during their relationship. If you aren’t saddled with one of these men, then I am not discussing you during this post. The course of many romantic […]
Here is what I think is in store for us in 2019. Buckle in bitches, I don’t think it’s going to get any easier. President Trump will continue to be president and they will not be impeaching him nor will he quit. The next Canadian […]
~~Quick warning, I discuss rape/sexual assault quite at length in this post. If that is bothersome or triggering to you, please go read about my cats instead.~~~~ I love Christmas music unapologetically and unabashedly. The Doris Day & Bing Crosby version of Baby it’s […]
Just a warning, what your about to read is in relation to child abuse and food issues. Please do not read this if it is going to cause you pain. Also, maybe I shouldn’t share this on a public forum, but you know what, fuck […]
Women have been doing it for themselves for many decades now, and they have the battle scars to prove it. It is true they have access to more rights and freedoms than previous generations (but still have a long way to go). However, for whatever […]
